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This week
It's been a bad one. Really bad. I've been thinking about this wisdom from my dear friend and forever inspiration Katie Blair, who works for justice every day in Indiana and knows a thing or two about fighting when the odds are stacked against you:
 
When everything sucks, I think of advice @LizWelchLive gave me- Define what winning looks like daily. It could be writing a letter to Congress, donating the your coffee $$ to an organization doing good, making rally signs with friends or just not crying at your desk. Go win!

There's also this, from Rep. John Lewis:
 

Our struggle is not the struggle of a day, a week, a month, or a year, it is the struggle of a lifetime. Never, ever be afraid to make some noise and get in good trouble, necessary trouble.


On the podcast, we talk to Dahlia Lithwick about what's next for the Supreme Court—and for the people whose rights it upholds and protects. Warning: It is bleak. I'll see you all in the streets on Saturday to protest family separation and protect the rights of immigrants and asylum-seekers. If you're in L.A., I'll be the person carrying a "MY BESTIE IS AN ASYLEE" sign. Say hi.
 

I'm reading
What one family endured in detention. Sotomayor's dissent in the Muslim travel ban case. "If my ideological ancestors did not harass their political opponents, I would still be enslaved." Where's Obama? Why a "pro-life" world has a lot of dead women in it. Women who said "Me Too" and changed their lives, and men who pardoned themselves. XXXtentation and the ethical failures of modern fandomDelivering packages for Amazon is a nightmare. How start-up mentality failed a school in San Francisco. The lost art of cruising. (And the rest of Slate's package on passing, too.) A roundtable conversation with the Queer Eye guys. Why is the media so worried about the parents of trans kids? Identity categories don't work — but stories do. Roxane Gay explores her physical transformation. Family doctors take on the opioid crisis. How gentrification coincides with complaints about a neighborhood. How to steal 50 million bees. The masculine mystique of testosterone. Geoff Dyer's art of nonfiction. B.D. Wong on the "crazy hard" reality of Hollywood. The lonely life of Andre Leon Talley. Swedes question the welfare state. A history of capitalism as seen through the plastic drinking straw. Seems like an appropriate moment for the positive death movement. The seduction of defiance.
 
Plus some fantastic, unconventional memoir: Jessica Hopper's Night Moves, Leah Dieterich's Vanishing Twins, and Yrsa Daley-Ward's The Terrible.


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I'm looking & listening
What life is like in immigrant detention. Rep. Pramila Jayapal was proud to be arrested on Thursday. Terry Crews' powerful testimony about sexual assault. An airport security guard seeks to right an injustice. "White Women Watching Me." Women in Saudi Arabia enjoy their right to drive.

GIFspiration
Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez learns she's just won the Democratic primary in New York's 14th district.

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