Letting Go Of Toxic Friends, Part 2

One of our most popular issues last year was titled Letting Go Of Toxic Friends ...

Hello Wonderful. One of our most popular issues last year was titled Letting Go Of Toxic Friends. We've all had them and many of us still do. It's rarely a mystery about who these people are--quick to offend, even quicker to take offense; constantly embroiled in dramas centered around victimization or disrespect--you never know what to expect and rarely feel a sense a peace and joy around them. It may seem like a cut and dry issue: toxic friends are unhealthy and we should get rid of them. But they are (or have been) a friend at one point, have they not? Shouldn't we at least try to communicate how their actions affect our feelings before cutting them off? Chances are they are unwittingly stuck in a self-sabotaging pattern. And even more troubling, what if we're the toxic friend? Let us ponder below. ISSUE #161 Letting Go Of Toxic People January 30, 2019 by Gina Pell + Amy Parker     "Being honest may not make you a lot of friends but it'll always get you the right ones."   - John Lennon   THE WHAT LIST 100% Editorial picks. No pay for play. Ever. The Signs.   Are there certain friends you dread hanging out with and relent only because you feel guilty? Chances are this relationship is not for you. Here are 13 Signs You're In A Toxic Relationship And how to GTFO.    The Times.   No matter where you live on earth chances are you are dealing with toxic waste either politically, environmentally or both. From The Washington Times Maintaining Unity In Toxic Times. The Restraint.   We'll be the first to admit that nobody is perfect. We all have toxic behaviors. Here's how to identify and stop them from Dr. Perpetua Neo, a Psychologist and Executive Coach who specializes in domestic violence and anxiety.   The Office. Luckily we've always worked in a supportive work environment with people we love but what if you don't have the luxury of assembling your own team? How do you work with people you loathe? From Harvard Business Review: How To Work With Someone You Hate.     GROWING THE WHAT WOMEN TAKE A SECOND TO CONTRIBUTE TO OUR COMMUNITY There are 25,000 conversations happening in TWW, our private community. Topics range from the practical to the personal to the profound. Our intention is to make women feel seen, heard, and supported. Whether you need help, want to share insights, or scroll through and learn from others, The What Women is a warm, cozy place to connect with generous women around the world. Invite friends to the conversation and help us grow this invaluable brain trust.  FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM Love, Amy + Gina Copyright © 2018-19, All rights reserved. Our mailing address is: 600 HARRISON STREET #100 San Francisco, CA . 94107 Want to change how you receive these emails? You can update your preferences or unsubscribe from this list.